our weekend adventures

friday


low and behold…i am sick yet again! -_-
i seriously can’t catch a friggen break!


i posted our 8 month update {HERE} so if you missed it, here you go!


while i was miserable on the couch, cale was intently working on his lego car that jaz and i got him for his birthday.

saturday


we got to tour the hospital we will be delivering at! it kinda made it even that much more real that we are going to have a baby so soon!!!


jaz got a kick out of where i put my visitor pass.


we were supposed to go to mexican on cale’s actual birthday {thursday} but that’s when the cold hit me hard so we had to postpone. we love this place!


after our food coma, we headed home and i took a nap. the cold was beating me up. but when i woke up, cale was out with his friend for birthday shenanigans so jaz and i took advantage and went and got some froyo!! yum!

sunday


sunday morning family breakfast was homemade biscuits and gravy. this is seriously the easiest thing to make and is so stinkin’ delicious!


sunday is usually our cleaning day, which we got a lot done but belly bumpin sounded so much more fun!

in the evening we taught jaz how to hate us, aka we taught her how to play monopoly. unfortunately, she did shed some tears {not joking} but we assured her that it is enevitable when first learning to play. {she was just bummed that she had to mortgage all her property to pay her mama, who ended up being the big winner!} in good time, young grasshopper, in good time.

i really wanted to get a lot done this weekend but this stupid cold kept my energy levels pretty low. i really think it’s just serious allergies because i didn’t feel achey or sore anywhere, just a runny nose. all i know is i need to kick this bugger because i have some babies to meet this weekend!!!

what did ya’ll get into?

always,
-jess

baby a : 8 months


31 weeks
8 months
3rd trimester
baby is the size of a cantaloupe / brie en brioche / motorcycle helmet / platypus
weight : approximately 3.3 lbs
length : approximately 16 in.
{***austin has taken away my butt and put it all into my boobs…***}

8 months, ya’ll!! we are getting so close!

we have so much planned for the upcoming month. 3d ultrasound, baby showers, maternity family shoot and preparing to meet this babe!

austin’s nursery is almost complete!! the only thing left to do is install the light fixture and get a few accent wall pieces. THAT’S IT! cale finished his closet a couple weekends ago so we are rip-roaring and ready to go!

we have also bought all of the big items that we will need. i always feel so wierd when others buy us things that are pretty pricey so i figured we could do that ourselves and just wait for all the little stuff from our showers. our list of bought items are as follows:
• crib
• changing table / dresser
• swing
• bassinet
• bouncer
• rocking chair
• stroller
• car seat
we are all set! if baby came now we could definitely manage!

these weeks are just flying by and i’m starting to get a little anxious. not for the birth but just the fact that we are going to have a little babe in our home! our normal routine will not be our normal routine anymore and that makes my type a personality incredibly anxious. also the fact that i’m leaving work and entrusting my job to someone is really really making my mind go bonkers. can’t i just work from home?!

doctor visits have been going wonderfully. i’m in the final months of pregnancy where i have to go every 2 weeks. which is fine because the appointments only last about 10 minutes. austin is measuring right on schedule and his little active heartbeat is so strong and sounds healthy! he really dislikes the doppler though, he always kicks the shit out of it when she puts it on there. he’s a frisky one!
movement is still non-stop. people keep saying that that’s indicative of what his personality will be like but i just roll my eyes because, how do you know?????? jaz was the calmest baby in utero and she is the exact opposite of that now. believe me. so hush with your unsolicited opinions!

here are some questions we are being asked as of late.

  1. have you started working on your birth plan? what is it?
    yes. our birth plan is to not have a birth plan. why? because who the hell knows exactly what is going to happen when you go into labor. and why be upset when your “plan” is destroyed because you need an emergency c-section? that’s just setting yourself up for disappointment. obviously we know we want to have him vaginally but we also understand that shit happens. give me all the drugs and be nice. that’s it. that’s our birth plan. 
  2. do you want visitors at the hospital?
    mmk…this seriously must be a southern thing but it is expected of you, if you are a close friend and/or family member, that you visit the new family in the hospital. maybe not while i’m pushing the kid out, but definitely afterward. when any of my friends or family gave birth and they gave the okay to come visit, i was there. it’s almost taboo to ask here in seattle. but to answer the question, yes. all i ask is that you call or text first. 
  3. do you want visitors when you go home?
    absolutely! again, just call or text first so i can make myself presentable. and please don’t come if you think you’re sick or getting sick. i won’t be that new mom that makes you douse yourself in hand sanitizer but just be courteous. if you think your hands might be dirty, go wash them real quick. no biggie. there’s this article going around about how new moms just want to be alone and NO you can’t hold my newborn or NO you can’t come visit, give us time! i’m sorry, i just don’t think that way. i’m such a social person that visitors will make my day!
  4. what are you most worried about?
    the penis… haha just kidding! {not really} but in all seriousness, i’m worried about my mina girl. she’s been an only child for 8 years. i know she is so super excited for her baby brother but i don’t think she fully understands what having a newborn in the house will entail. cale and i have had multiple discussions on how we will make sure she feels the same amount of attention when he comes as she does now but what if that’s still not enough? 
  5. will you have more kids?
    if you would have asked me this during week 6-19 then my answer would be “hell no” but now that i’m over that sickness hump we are thinking yes. one more little and then we are donezo.
  6. will you vaccinate?
    uhm….hell yes. and i’ll leave it at that. 
  7. how has cale been?
    i know i always brag about my husband but you guys, he really is the most caring and nurturing person i’ve ever met. he understands that when i feel miserable, i really do feel miserable. when i was sick at the beginning, not once did he complain that dinner was not made or the house wasn’t clean. instead he would make dinner {mostly his famous grilled cheeses} and clean when he got home from work. all the while, asking me if i needed anything. i couldn’t have asked for a better partner to have by my side. 
  8. what have you disliked the most about this pregnancy?
    i think my expectation of what it would be like because my last pregnancy was so incredibly easy. i loved being pregnant with jaz, but my body was 16 years old. my boobs weren’t even fully grown yet, ya’ll! my body was like a mutant and could resist anything and everything. i really wish i could say this pregnancy has been wonderful but that would be a lie. a complete and utter lie. my little testosterone babe has wreaked havoc on my petite body {and face good god, hello acne-ville} i know some women would do anything to be pregnant but i’m allowed to have my feelings. i am in no way ungrateful for the little miracle that i am growing but goodness gracious just a little reprieve from nausea, heartburn, reflux, acne, restlessness, etc would be nice. ya know? 

have any other questions for me? ask away and i will answer in next month’s update!

HAPPY 8 MONTHS TO ME AND MY LITTLE PRINCE! 

always,
-jess

our weekend adventures 

friday


i am really the morale pusher at work and i love doing random stuff to make people happy so i brought donuts! and every time i bring something sweet and glutenous i always have to blame it on baby a.


i also have the most awesome friend who brought me BUGELS! bugels people!!!

saturday


before jaz and i set off for our weekend errands we enjoyed some homemade blueberry muffins!


one of our stops was petco and we always have to find the kittens up for adoption and give them some lovin! this guy was so sweet!


buffalo wild wings is my life. actually pickles, pickles are my life.


what other mama’s weekend looked similar? the weekend before valentines means getting lots and lots of valentines ready! jaz and i always kind of go all out.


this sweetness arrived! i can’t wait to put my little viking in it!


it was a beautiful weekend so we took advantage and got my big butt out and walking! there are some new houses going up down the street so cale and i engaged in some illegal activity and poked our heads in. we are suckers for new houses!

sunday


i got up before jaz and cale and hit the grocery store. note to self, do not go the grocery store whilst hungry and pregnant. don’t do it.


we got this baby up and decorated! this is in our entryway!


i’m telling you, it was a beautiful weekend, so i got lucy all cleaned and purdy!


jaz found my letterman from highschool. nowwww she believes me when i say i had the best jumps and i was a flier {cough..best stunt group…cough}


we headed to seattle in the evening to celebrate the pending arrival of baby girl steiner! this made my heart melt! she is going to be the best big sister ever!


babies babies babies!! we celebrated mama in the middle {hailey} who is due in like a week and misha is due a day after her! i can’t wait to meet all of the new littles!
{side note: i am not as huge as this picture is making me look! stripes are so cute and flattering in person but angles are tricky when you’re being photographed!}

we got so much done this weekend and i am so satisfied! it was mama’s to-do weekend since cale has been feverishly working on his cloffice for the past month. we got austin’s closet pretty much done, his shelf mounted above his changing table, his artwork hung above his crib and the rocking chair assembled! we also hung drapery in the formal living and moved things/cleaned the laundry room! it was a great weekend and so pretty! we hardly had to wear coats! also be “we” i totally mean cale. i supervised.

what did you guys do?

always,
-jess

our weekend adventures 

friday


it was a mini game night! jaz and i played mancala before cale got home and then they played guess who!


what is with all of the static lately?! our couch is a shock magnet!

saturday


sooooo…i failed my 1 hour glucose test for gestational diabetes so i had to go in for the dreadful 3 hour screen. ugh it was awful! the drink was a million times sweeter and i had to just sit there for 3 stinkin’ hours! butttt…I DON’T HAVE THE DIABEETUS! woop woop!


after my test i headed to the mall to pick up a few things and because i had to fast for 12 hours before the glucose test i had a scary bout of hyperglycemia. in a matter of minutes i went from fine, to insanely shaky, sweaty (like my forehead was wet), dizzy and my vision blacked out. i freaked out and went straight to the food court and quickly ordered chipotle. after i ate the whole thing i was a okay again. scary stuff y’all.


i hadn’t gotten my test results back yet so i decided that i was going to indulge just in case i wouldn’t be able to for the rest of my pregnancy. mmmm milkshake!

 sunday


obsessed with our master would be an understatement. i cannot wait till we get this gigantic room painted!


superbowl sunday brought out the little chef that could! hehe my honey was so excited to try this pizza roll thing he saw on facebook! he’s such a cutie!


just a few yummies we made! galen & shannon also made some amazing wings! mmmmm i love football food!


just wouldn’t feel right if i weren’t representing our boys! we’ll get em next year!


after everyone left, jaz practiced her french braiding skills on my hair. she’s got it down!


and like every other night after we tuck jaz in, we sat on the couch while cale calmed austin down by talking to him and rubbing my belly ❤

it was kind of a busy weekend. most of my saturday was taken up by that damn glucose screen so i feel like i didn’t get much accomplished. but it was nice to hang out with galen, shannon and their precious girls! the game was a bummer though. i am not a falcons fan but i LOATHE the pariots (CHEATERS) so i really wanted atlanta to win. but i gotta hand it to new england. that was one helluva comeback!

what adventures did you go on!?

always,
-jess