baby a : 8 months


31 weeks
8 months
3rd trimester
baby is the size of a cantaloupe / brie en brioche / motorcycle helmet / platypus
weight : approximately 3.3 lbs
length : approximately 16 in.
{***austin has taken away my butt and put it all into my boobs…***}

8 months, ya’ll!! we are getting so close!

we have so much planned for the upcoming month. 3d ultrasound, baby showers, maternity family shoot and preparing to meet this babe!

austin’s nursery is almost complete!! the only thing left to do is install the light fixture and get a few accent wall pieces. THAT’S IT! cale finished his closet a couple weekends ago so we are rip-roaring and ready to go!

we have also bought all of the big items that we will need. i always feel so wierd when others buy us things that are pretty pricey so i figured we could do that ourselves and just wait for all the little stuff from our showers. our list of bought items are as follows:
• crib
• changing table / dresser
• swing
• bassinet
• bouncer
• rocking chair
• stroller
• car seat
we are all set! if baby came now we could definitely manage!

these weeks are just flying by and i’m starting to get a little anxious. not for the birth but just the fact that we are going to have a little babe in our home! our normal routine will not be our normal routine anymore and that makes my type a personality incredibly anxious. also the fact that i’m leaving work and entrusting my job to someone is really really making my mind go bonkers. can’t i just work from home?!

doctor visits have been going wonderfully. i’m in the final months of pregnancy where i have to go every 2 weeks. which is fine because the appointments only last about 10 minutes. austin is measuring right on schedule and his little active heartbeat is so strong and sounds healthy! he really dislikes the doppler though, he always kicks the shit out of it when she puts it on there. he’s a frisky one!
movement is still non-stop. people keep saying that that’s indicative of what his personality will be like but i just roll my eyes because, how do you know?????? jaz was the calmest baby in utero and she is the exact opposite of that now. believe me. so hush with your unsolicited opinions!

here are some questions we are being asked as of late.

  1. have you started working on your birth plan? what is it?
    yes. our birth plan is to not have a birth plan. why? because who the hell knows exactly what is going to happen when you go into labor. and why be upset when your “plan” is destroyed because you need an emergency c-section? that’s just setting yourself up for disappointment. obviously we know we want to have him vaginally but we also understand that shit happens. give me all the drugs and be nice. that’s it. that’s our birth plan. 
  2. do you want visitors at the hospital?
    mmk…this seriously must be a southern thing but it is expected of you, if you are a close friend and/or family member, that you visit the new family in the hospital. maybe not while i’m pushing the kid out, but definitely afterward. when any of my friends or family gave birth and they gave the okay to come visit, i was there. it’s almost taboo to ask here in seattle. but to answer the question, yes. all i ask is that you call or text first. 
  3. do you want visitors when you go home?
    absolutely! again, just call or text first so i can make myself presentable. and please don’t come if you think you’re sick or getting sick. i won’t be that new mom that makes you douse yourself in hand sanitizer but just be courteous. if you think your hands might be dirty, go wash them real quick. no biggie. there’s this article going around about how new moms just want to be alone and NO you can’t hold my newborn or NO you can’t come visit, give us time! i’m sorry, i just don’t think that way. i’m such a social person that visitors will make my day!
  4. what are you most worried about?
    the penis… haha just kidding! {not really} but in all seriousness, i’m worried about my mina girl. she’s been an only child for 8 years. i know she is so super excited for her baby brother but i don’t think she fully understands what having a newborn in the house will entail. cale and i have had multiple discussions on how we will make sure she feels the same amount of attention when he comes as she does now but what if that’s still not enough? 
  5. will you have more kids?
    if you would have asked me this during week 6-19 then my answer would be “hell no” but now that i’m over that sickness hump we are thinking yes. one more little and then we are donezo.
  6. will you vaccinate?
    uhm….hell yes. and i’ll leave it at that. 
  7. how has cale been?
    i know i always brag about my husband but you guys, he really is the most caring and nurturing person i’ve ever met. he understands that when i feel miserable, i really do feel miserable. when i was sick at the beginning, not once did he complain that dinner was not made or the house wasn’t clean. instead he would make dinner {mostly his famous grilled cheeses} and clean when he got home from work. all the while, asking me if i needed anything. i couldn’t have asked for a better partner to have by my side. 
  8. what have you disliked the most about this pregnancy?
    i think my expectation of what it would be like because my last pregnancy was so incredibly easy. i loved being pregnant with jaz, but my body was 16 years old. my boobs weren’t even fully grown yet, ya’ll! my body was like a mutant and could resist anything and everything. i really wish i could say this pregnancy has been wonderful but that would be a lie. a complete and utter lie. my little testosterone babe has wreaked havoc on my petite body {and face good god, hello acne-ville} i know some women would do anything to be pregnant but i’m allowed to have my feelings. i am in no way ungrateful for the little miracle that i am growing but goodness gracious just a little reprieve from nausea, heartburn, reflux, acne, restlessness, etc would be nice. ya know? 

have any other questions for me? ask away and i will answer in next month’s update!

HAPPY 8 MONTHS TO ME AND MY LITTLE PRINCE! 

always,
-jess

2 thoughts on “baby a : 8 months

  1. yes, yes, and yes to all of this!

    I feel the same way about my job – I have been there for 12 years and having to trust someone else to fill in makes me crazy.

    I am also so thankful to be pregnant, but pregnancy and I were not friends .. AT ALL. I have never felt so sick in all of my life. Every AM I give my husband a list of things that hurt .. there were a few times he asked if there was ANYTHING that DIDN’T hurt? ummm, no haha

    I am going to be induced tomorrow night. I am absolutely terrified, but also so excited to meet our girl! 🙂

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