baby a : his birth story

HI GUYS!!!

i am so sorry i have been mia but incase you missed it on my instagram or facebook

OUR PRINCE HAS ARRIVED!
we are more than thrilled to announce
austin david anderson
born 4/12/2017 @ 3:25 pm
6 pounds 15 ounces
19 inches long

 

austin’s birth story :

this is a very long post. you are warned.

4/27 was our due date but circumstances prevailed and A came 2 weeks early! as so many of you know…i was miserable this entire pregnancy. his little testosterone body wreaked complete havoc on my body. as soon as i turned 37 weeks, full term according to most doctors, i was praying he would decide to come ASAP!
be careful what you wish for…
on monday, 4/10, i woke up with an incredible headache. not a migraine, just a really weird headache. not normal for me. not only did i have a headache, i was also very swollen, my feet, my hands, my nose, i just looked and felt more puffy than usual. i just shrugged it off and took two tylenol so that i could get through work without wanting to kill somebody.
when i got to work something told me to check my blood pressure. i hadn’t really been worried about preeclampsia since i didn’t have it with jaz but it was in the back of my mind. one of my coworkers had a blood pressure cuff that she said i was welcome to use at any time so i took her up on the offer, after checking it twice the diastolic number (bottom number) was high, i called my doctor justttt to be sure. she said come to triage, we need to monitor you, baby and see if there is any protein in your urine. well…crap. i called cale and he met me at the hospital.
after being in triage for 3+ hours and finding a small trace of protein in my urine, i was sent home with 2 ginormous jugs, a pee hat and orders for a 24 hour urine sample…so.much.fun….so that’s exactly what i did for the next 24 hours…all the while, still swelling and contracting. i had been having steady contractions that i knew weren’t braxton hicks but they were never consistent so i paid no mind to them.
4/11-i had to call in to work on tuesday. i’m sure my co-workers would not appreciate there being 2 jugs of pee in the fridge so i decided to spare them. around 3 was when my 24 hours was up and i headed back to triage for them to test my sample and to monitor both me and A. the good ol hubby met me there, and jaz was at school. at this point, the thought that we might get admitted and have a baby tonight was there but highly unlikely so we didn’t set anything up for what we would do with jaz…FAIL!
contractions were becoming much more frequent and consistent. probably about 20-30 minutes apart. again nothing too alarming but definitely showing signs of pre-labor. {yay!!} after 2 hours of being monitored {and becoming more and more famished} the doctor finally came in. for me to pass my protein test, my levels needed to be under 300, my result was over 430 {yikes} and because i was over 37 weeks and to avoid any major complications closer to 40 weeks, the doctor said, IT’S BABY TIME!
SHIT JUST GOT REAL, Y’ALL!

the induction would start with me taking misoprostol every 4 hours to soften my cervix, which was supposed to start at 7 pm on 4/11. my body had other plans though. i was contracting about every 7-10 minutes, meaning i was laboring on my own, which coincidentally happened with jaz too. i guess when my body hears induction, it kicks into gear and gets it done on it’s own, haha! so in order for them to give me the miso, they had to stop my contractions {don’t ask me why…it seems very odd to me to that in order for me to start contracting and go into labor with the miso, they had to stop natural contractions to induce fake ones…I DUNNO!} so i got hooked up to some fluids to space them out a bit. i got my first dose around 8!

hospital gown and pillowcase // baby be mine

for the rest of the night i contracted, not bad though. i was able to sleep through them so that should tell you the level of pain they were. every 4 hours i would get woken up to take another dose.

4/12- 7 am – i woke up to a gush. so being curious i reached down just to be sure and yupppp! that was my water! cale was still sleeping so i said “cale…calllleee, can you hand me the phone…my water just broke.” i think those words have been haunting him because i swear i’ve never seen him jump up so freaking fast! my nurse came in and confirmed that it was my water and checked it to be sure austin didn’t have a bowel movement. everything looked perfect…felt gross though. with jaz, the doctor had to break my water so i really wanted for it to happen naturally this go-round. and it did! my nurse {amy} was really surprised it did happen and i think that hit the nail on the head that yes i was being induced but my body had already started the process all on it’s own. but because of the preeclampsia they couldn’t just let me labor on my own because who knows how long that would actually take so, pitocin started at 11.

HELLLLOOO PAINFUL CONTRACTIONS!
every 2 minutes. with jaz, i only made it to three centimeters so i was hell bent on making it as long as i could without the epidural.

can we talk about my husband real quick?
we had talked about what he should do while i was laboring and all i asked was not to ask me if i was okay…because OBVIOUSLY! but you guys, i could not have asked for a better partner to labor with. i was legitimately concerned about snapping at him or getting annoyed with him {sorry honey} but he was amazing. he laid behind me and put pressure on my lower back through contractions. once they got stronger he sat in front me and let me squeeze him, basically head butt him, sometimes i lightly kicked him…WHAT A TROOPER! haha he was even keeping track of the machine to warn me when another contraction was about to rear it’s ugly head again so i could prepare. thank you for being amazing, honey.

5 cm – after two boosts of pain meds through my iv, it was time for the epidural. they were coming way too fast and way too hard. before the anesthesiologist came in i told my nurse, okay with my daughter i went from 3 to 10 within 2 hours… so just a heads up! after it was placed, amy told me to try and take a nap, i was going to need it to push.
30 minutes later – something was funny feeling, i felt lots of pressure and tingling, so i gave little amy a jingle. “uhmmmm, yeah i feel tingling…” she came in, checked me, her eyes got big and she said “oppp you’re ready” 30 minutes, y’all…i went from 5 to 10 in 30 minutes!! my epidural hadn’t even fully taken yet! i could still move my legs!

as amy is trying to track down my doctor, she looked over at me and could see the “oh shit, i’m pushing” face and she said, “you need to have your baby now, don’t you? don’t push don’t push!” of course this sent me overboard and i instantly started crying and saying, i can’t help it! all the while, cale had went potty, maybe in there 2 minutes, he went in with just amy in the room, came out with another nurse, and the nearest midwife {she was checking on a patient next door} suiting up. his literal words were, “OH SHIT THIS IS HAPPENING NOW”
as the midwife was getting her gown on, she was simultaneously telling me to push when i needed to, with one hand there just in case a baby plopped out.
AGAIN…EPIDURAL NOT FULLY IN EFFECT. I COULD FEEL EVERYTHING.
3 contractions later, the midwife asked me to reach down and pull my baby out, i got to pull austin out, y’all!

and our beautiful baby boy was born. cale & i instantly started crying and it will forever go down as one of the most beautiful and chaotic moments in our lives, it all happened so fast!


skin to skin with papa!


not even an hour later big sister jazmyne was there to meet her baby brother!


we stayed overnight and i could not put him down.


i’m a spoiled mama! my push gift from the hubby!


custom receiving blanket // etsy-gingerlous
and less than 24 hours after giving birth, we were able to go home! austin passed all of the necessary tests with flying colors and i was walking around, both patients were ready.to.go!


proud papa!

austin is now 2 weeks and 2 days! what a whirlwind it has been!
i still have his nursery reveal to post about and now his newborn session as well!
stay tuned!!!

always,
-the proudest mama bear ever, jess

3 thoughts on “baby a : his birth story

  1. Congrats! What a beautiful family 😀 I was just thinking that you’ll need to update your main blog picture to include your beautiful baby boy!!! I can’t believe it’s been 6 weeks already, too. Time goes so fast! AND he was born on my birthday 😀 I feel honored, hehe. Seriously though, I’m so happy for you guys!!!

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